Stepping Outside My Comfort Zone: My First time out!
A few weeks ago I went out as Kirsten for the very first time. I literally dreamed about doing this and all being a bit nerve-wracking, but I really enjoyed doing it!
My first idea was to go out just after sunset to make it feel a bit safer to go out fully dressed. At least, I thought I would feel less nervous. But then I realized that if I would try to blend in as much as possible and would go to a quiet place, probably no one would really recognize me as a crossdresser. At least I hoped so..
PVC ankle boots


These shiny PVC ankle boots are simply lovely and stylish. They go with almost every outfit and are pretty comfy to walk in even though they have a 12 cm heel. They have a zip but the boot is a bit longer than that. The length is more in between ankle and knee-high boots, and I just love that!
Find the boots over here
(EU size 34-46 and also available in custom colors)
White crocodile chunky boots


Wow, those are nice! It’s the first thing my wife said when she saw me wearing these boots. Do you think she’s right? I do!
These boots are really well made and with the chunky heel of 11 cm so comfy to walk in! Besides the white color, they’re also available in black or any other custom color you like. For me, it’s such a pleasure to wear them this spring season!
Find the boots over here
(EU size 34-46 and also available in custom colors)
Black Stiletto Beauties


When I discovered these boots, I immediately fell in love. They’re so elegant and stylish! They go a bit over the knee and have no zipper. The leather is really soft and even though the boots have a 12 cm stiletto heel, they're pretty comfortable to walk and even dance in.
Of all the boots I collected, these are my absolute favorite at the moment, available in black, white, brown, or any other costume color you like!
Find the boots over here
(EU size 34-46 and also available in custom colors)
Breaking Down Walls
How I Grew Closer to My Wife By Being My True Self
When I work from home, I like to dress up. Sometimes it's only boots and sometimes I like to dress up completely when there's more time. Working from home my wife occasionally hops by to do laundry for example, and every time she enters the room, she sees me being tense.
She doesn't want me to be like that and keeps saying that I can be at ease when I'm dressed. This made me think a lot;
Why am I tensed when she's around and I'm dressed?
Shop my Items on Vinted


Lately, I have a new small hobby. I like to search at Vinted for special items. Doing so I stumbled upon some very special leather clothes being second-hand, at low prices! My closet space however is limited, so I'm also selling some of my clothes, so if you're interested, find the link below!
If you’re interested in leather items, but Vinted doesn’t support sending them to your country, feel free to send me a message. Recently I sold some items to the US for example via FedEx, took a few days but became a perfect journey.
Thanks for subscribing to this newsletter. I hope it inspires you and gives value in finding shopping tips for boots and clothes in the right (big) sizes.
I started this newsletter to share insights my wife and I have while finding out how to embrace my cross-dressing journey into our lives. It's a step-by-step process and has its ups and downs, but I hope these can help others who struggle with the same feelings.
If you have any questions, feel free to leave me a comment or send a DM on my Instagram.
Kirsten 🖤