How it all started

My wife suggested me to buy my first boots

For a long time, I have been struggling with the feelings of crossdressing but luckily I found a way to express myself and finally start dressing! Hugely supported by my wife which is one of the most beautiful things that happened to me.

I have loved boots, gloves, and leather for as long as I can remember.
I think my earliest memory dates back to when I was five years old.

I remember being in the attic bringing my mom's leather boots and gloves and my dad called for dinner. I was shocked and hide but my dad found me with the boots and gloves. I remember telling him I found them over there, but clearly, that wasn't the case! My dad was friendly and just put them back where they belong.

Growing up I noticed every boot or leather glove on women with great attention. What a day it was when suddenly my grandma came in and brought a bag of old clothes and also a pair of boots! I asked if I could keep them to play with and, of course, she agreed. This was the first of a few pairs of boots that I kept during my teenage years. I always hide them from everyone and even trowed some pairs away feeling guilty about it.

Fast forward to when I met my wife; the first and most vivid image I have of her is seeing her walking by in high heels! Before this, we got in contact via an online chat, but seeing her in real-life wearing those high heels gave my heart an extra bounce! She looked so gracious and stunning! Who was this woman? We started dating and fell in love. At the end of our dating period, I told her about my feelings for crossdressing because I wanted her to know before we got into an official relationship. She reacted very kindly and tender but also didn't really know what to think about it.

A last fast-forward to today. About a year ago my wife suggested I buy a pair of boots in my size after I had some sessions with a psychologist and he found out about this hidden part of my life. This amazing step of support really set me free. We sought on the web together but finding boots in my size seemed to be so hard! After a time I found some pairs and of course chose the ones with the highest heels. I still have them today.

A few months later I felt the urge to get in contact with like-minded people and started to take pictures of myself and post them on Instagram. The reactions and kind people that opened conversations were amazing!

When I hit 1000 followers, again my wife suggested something really nice; let's make some pictures together with both our boots and leather on. When I posted these pictures on Instagram I, or better say we, got overwhelmed with all the amazing comments. People loved my wife for being so supportive and started asking for all kinds of tips.

How did you get your wife to be so supportive? Where did you buy those boots in big sizes and where did you get those gloves from?

I realized that all the time I put into getting to this point and also the resources I found online where I bought my boots and clothes, was something a lot of people struggled with.

I started sharing more and more and now I'm starting this Newsletter because I also found out I love making content. I would like to share my journey and the steps my wife and I take and also share the links to the items I find in big sizes, so you can enjoy them too if you like.

I've been trapped inside hiding these strong feelings to dress as a woman for about 35 years, and hope that this story and the ones to come will encourage people to step out way earlier than I did and enjoy the amazing process and trill of transforming themselves into a woman from time to time!

Let’s go on a journey together.

Much love,
Kirsten