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Remy Wong's avatar

Hi Kirsten, I'm so glad I found and subscribed to your YouTube channel as well as your newsletter. Like many others, I can relate to your post about being afraid of rejection. I'm a female masker with cross-dressing desires for as long as I can remember. However, I only have a female mask and bodysuit along with several Hunter rain boots and Dr. Martens combat boots. It's not much but part of my cross-dressing desires has come from a woman's footwear choice. I think it's very stunning when a woman wears Hunter rain boots and/or Dr.Martens combat boots or any combat boots in general While it's easier to pull off low-heeled combat boots, it's a shame that not many men wear Hunter rain boots and California is not a state that rains that often. Living with my parents also makes it difficult to have much feminine wardrobe. My parents are traditionalist and conservative and on my culture, I can't move out until I get married. However, I'm afraid of marriage because I'm afraid of rejection from my future wife. It's really difficult to balance my desires with respecting my culture.

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Crossdresser Kirsten's avatar

Hi Remy, thanks for your honest reply! For me, it really helped to work with a psychologist and be honest about my desires to my wife in a step-by-step approach

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